Great leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about creating environments where others can flourish. The most effective leaders I’ve observed share certain qualities: they listen deeply, communicate transparently, and remain anchored to their core values even when storms arise. They understand that leadership is ultimately about service to others and the courage to make … Continue reading
The world of education is a difficult and complex one. You learn, you lead, and you never give up.But here’s the question no one asks in the job description: How do you connect to others and keep going when the role itself isolates you? The Paradox of Presence Hundreds of children. Dozens of staff. Parents … Continue reading
When you look back and reflect, how much of what you do and what you manage is intense? Life and all that goes with it is filled with opportunity yet shadowed by uncomfortable truths. Across the country, dedicated colleagues share stories that weigh heavy: children with profound needs navigating systems that simply cannot hold them. … Continue reading
This morning’s conversation with a colleague served as a stark reminder of why kindness matters, particularly in our profession. As educators, we navigate an increasingly complex landscape where the pressures multiply from every direction – accountability frameworks, budget constraints, staffing challenges – and yet it’s often the relentless nature of unjustified complaints that weighs most … Continue reading
Life’s complexity can feel overwhelming when leadership demands clash with personal well-being. The weight you’re carrying is real—the endless obligations, the sacrifice of precious time with family, even the physical toll manifesting in your own body. Yet your question itself reveals something vital: you’re still asking if it’s worth it, still seeking meaning in the … Continue reading
Life has a peculiar way of revealing itself through the most unexpected moments and encounters. We navigate through our days surrounded by an extraordinary cast of characters – including those who seem determined to find fault in every silver lining, spreading negativity like a persistent fog that dampens even the brightest moments. These individuals move … Continue reading
Regular reflection on our actions and motivations forms the cornerstone of authentic leadership. By examining what we do and why we do it, we develop a clearer understanding of our fundamental purpose. This self-awareness becomes the foundation for ethical decision-making, enabling us to act with integrity even when faced with significant pressure or opposition. When … Continue reading
I was recently invited to an end of year celebration, along with my old Deputy, and it was genuinely touching. The warmth from children and parents alike was overwhelming, and hearing their fond recollections of the time my Deputy and I spent there filled my heart with gratitude. Their stories reminded me why we entered … Continue reading
When adults unite with a shared purpose—putting children and young people first—something remarkable happens. Barriers dissolve, egos step aside, and genuine progress becomes possible. This transformation doesn’t occur through grand gestures or complex strategies, but through the simple yet profound act of truly listening to one another. Real collaboration begins with mutual respect. It means … Continue reading
Looking back on my time as a co-opted primary headteacher to ASCL Council, I’m struck by how transformative these past two years have been. What began as an opportunity quickly became something far more profound—a masterclass in collaborative leadership and unwavering dedication to education. The organisation is positively littered with truly brilliant people. I don’t … Continue reading
Denham Kite 